Which do you prefer to choose? Words with no action? or Action with no words?
Lately, I’ve been thinking about it…
And i found that ‘action it self is the prove from our words, our hearts and our feelings!’
When someone say that they love you…you’ll start to attend for they act to you…
You’ll see how they treat you, how they caring you, how they show their feel to you…
and you will ask the proof from they words! Right?
Well…for me, my acts and my behaviors represent a thousand words!
When I say something…I’ll try to acts and have my behaviors as like as what I’ve said!
Because I really-really hate pharisee person!!
So…many times, I rather to take an action than say a thousand words!
“Action speak louder than word!”
But because an action is contain thousand words…sometimes people misunderstanding it!
And in that case…words will be needed to explain our act! 
That’s why…
We must really careful about our action in every situation and with whom we opp 
As an example, if you know that your best friend falling in love with you and you doesn’t love her back and their no possibility to it, what will you do? Did you just said that…
1. “Sorry, but we just can be friend!” and keep acting and caring like usual?
or
2. you said the same thing and take some time, keep a distance and your act to preserve her heart?
If you choose the number 1, did you think it best for you both? or you just follow your egoism that you doesn’t want to lose her? For me…it will just make me confused, and make me feels like I still have a hope! And it will hurt me again and again and again!
But if you choose number 2, maybe in the early your best friend will sad…but after that, you can be a friend again with a pure heart! And there will no repeating “heart ache”! Just once in the beginning and it will make your best friend face the reality and not hopeful and start to searching the other
That is a little example from my life
So…be smart in our actions, our behaviors, our words even our kindness to not make misunderstanding with people around us!
- Seirei Mitsukai -
